IME Sweetheart table just means a table the B&G are sitting at by themselves. There isn't a standard size - I've seen them in multiple sizes and even shapes. I would find out the actual size of the table you will be using. A sweetheart table is exactly what it says. A table just for the sweethearts! These two-seater tables are solely for the newlyweds to sit together as an alternative to the traditional top or head table where the couple are surrounded by their closest family and members of the wedding party. They can be super simple in manner or full of florals Wedding Sweetheart Table Ideas. Your sweetheart table is an easy way to play into your wedding theme with flower arrangements, decorative linens and more. Here are some examples we love. 1. Oversized Greenery Wreath Backdrop A sweetheart table is an alternative seating arrangement for your wedding, where instead of sitting at a top table with the traditional lineup, you sit at a table just the two of you. Essentially, it's a table reserved for the guests of honour, the sweethearts - in other words, you two! Photograph: Lena Sabala In terms of size, a 4-foot diameter table is typically sufficient for the bride and groom. This allows them enough space to comfortably sit and enjoy their meal, while also leaving enough room for any decorative elements or centerpieces that may be placed on the table. It is important to ensure that the table is not too large or too small, as Round (3ft or 4ft) This size table is intimate enough that it won't feel too large for the Newlyweds and it still allows for decor or a centerpiece. You can duplicate this look with our Ivory or pearl linen, Light wood folding chairs, vases and votive candle holders. 3', 4', 5', or 6' round? Or a 6' or 8' rectangle? Or more of a card table? The rest of our guests (BP included) will be at 8' rectangular tables in the banquet hall. We've decided to go with a sweetheart table for the bride and groom. We're trying to decide what size and shape table to use for this. What did everyone else use, or are Sweetheart table sizes and shapes. To learn the size of a table, you should specify its shape. Round; Usually, the size of the sweetheart table is 3ft or 4ft, if it is round. Such a size guarantees maximum intimacy — but at the same time, you will be able to put a decor item in the center. Edwin and I decided on a long table for the seating arrangements at our intimate wedding in Italy. I love how this sweetheart table is the "center" of the reception, connecting the two longer guest tables. Photo via Heart Love Weddings* A sweetheart table in the middle of the woods? That's my definition of wedding heaven. 36-inch to 48-inch tables are best suited for a Sweetheart Table. If your guests will be seated for long periods of time (like for a formal dinner), go with the smaller number of people (for example, only put 8 at a 60-inch round). If you are having a plated meal and formal table settings, you will want your guests to have some elbow room and upU8G.